 Should I keep on hanging out with him? |
Vusi
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Last Post: 14.08.2008, 13:34
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 10:00 |
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Me and My GirlFriend broke up for two weeks and got back together again, after EIGHT good years of dating. The reason was proposed for marriege by a guy who was also being by her parents. Back at the North they are neighbours and i stay a bit far from their village. What worries me is this guy knew about our relationship and i don't know why he insisted to split us. And now he still knows that we are back together but the thing is i still hang-out with at places like Katutura and another thing is he is buddies with my Housemates coz they came from the same village.
the good thing is none of us has provoked the other though we used to crash into one another at her place before she moves to the north.
My question is should i avoid him or should i just keep on pretending like nothing had happened?
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Doggg
Number Posts: 13
Last Post: 15.08.2008, 16:15
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 10:14 |
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Vusi
Your question is and i quote: "should i avoid him or should i just keep on pretending like nothing had happened?"
to me its the same thing. whether your AVOID him or pretend as if nothing had happened, it will give you the same results, soo do both braa!!
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| Re: Should I keep on hanging out with him? |
Vusi
Number Posts: 35
Last Post: 14.08.2008, 13:34
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 10:26 |
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It's my fault Braa! What my question meant is "Should i avoid hanging out with him or Should i keep on pretending like nothing had happened? U re wellcm to ask where i didn't myself clear as well if u want to here more. Thanks for ur concern brother and hoping to get constructive advices from.
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Tiara
Number Posts: 246
Last Post: 29.08.2008, 19:25
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 12:33 |
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Vusi
It's a worriyng situation,I might say.Before I answer your question,I should say this,I don't think that "guy"is the only problem to deal with but your girfriend too!!!! I meant,you said you have been dating for eight good years,so my question is why would your girlfriend be tempted by another guy???(no need to answer that)Damn,this is a worrisome complecated mystery!!
Now back to your question,well,I personally think that you should not avoid hanging out with him neither pretend as if nothing had ever happened!!!A big NO!why?because then you will never find out the thruth or rather the reason why he mangled your relationship with your long time love.Approach him,Vusi and just ask him bull to bull why he split you up.I am sure if he tells you all the answers or the reasons behind his motive,at least your mind will be set free,either way.And only after that,you can actually decide what to do next............................
All the best!
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Vusi
Number Posts: 35
Last Post: 14.08.2008, 13:34
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 15:50 |
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Thanks Tiara for ur GOOD advices. I will take and respect them as they are. But the reason behide was to marry her, and My Angel was forced to admit the proposal by her parents! It is a complicated situation and it is because of this complication that made her admit. This
I cut the story short My Friend. I respect u coz of ur good advices and i suggest u need to know the whole story from the beginning to the end and by that u gonna give me more than i wanted. Agree? vusi@web.com.na is my personal address. Looking forward to your replies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tiara
Number Posts: 246
Last Post: 29.08.2008, 19:25
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| Monday, 09. June 2008 at 18:10 |
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Thanks,Vusi.
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