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Smillie
Number Posts: 7
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 10:36
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| Tuesday, 31. July 2007 at 15:22 |
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I need some help! I proposed this lady whom i love and i want her to become my future wife.so she told me that marring her is not a problem but i should ask pray to god that i made i first approche what must i do next and she even said if it is god's will i will marry her there is no problem about that.
Sinc than i not been meeting with thi lady and some times she is even shy to see me even if i try to phone her it is like she is saying oh is this guy again. But i believe and have hope that is the right woman for me.because i truly loves her she make my heart happy when ever i see her.
Please to overcome this situation.
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Mercy
Number Posts: 8
Last Post: 07.08.2007, 14:52
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| Tuesday, 31. July 2007 at 21:02 |
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Hi smillie, I hope that you are a CHRISTIAN because I will give my views based on that. you can visit this web page www.boundless.org , it is run by a christian institute and it helped me get my relationship on track I hope it will offer you practical advice too. all the best, and I hope you didn't take the praying part lightly, God know the begining from the end and if he gives you a go ahead then you know you have a founder, keeps!! he gave me his go ahead last year and I can never thank him enough!!
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Smillie
Number Posts: 7
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 10:36
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| Wednesday, 01. August 2007 at 10:33 |
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Hi Mercy thank you very much for that reply it is giving me confident that they are people outside their who cares.
Because alway i pray or ask for adivce i always get a postive answer about the relationship. i will just look to the lord he is the only one who knows why are things going like that.
anywhere thank you very much may God bless you.
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Smangaliso
Number Posts: 84
Last Post: 10.07.2008, 16:31
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| Wednesday, 01. August 2007 at 12:05 |
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you look like a coward man if the bitch doesnt want to marry you then move forward catch a nother fish you might even catch a whale if you want advices with women ill hoek you up jus say what you want to hear and give it to you. dont go chasing behind a ladies butt dont even think of kissing her ass she can go to hell for all you care. If you met a cute girl, your intention was to win her over with your charms. If she liked you, youll feel validated and in turn liked yourself. But if she blew you off, even if you played a cool front, deep down you would bang your head against the walls and live in a state of woe and dismay and how unworthy you where. but if you move on you will meet someone who would mend your fragile ego with their acceptance. dont be a retard man one more thing ladies love drama, and if you are not a great author of your own life, then you will fail to intrigue them! It is sad that some men choose to exploit these emotional weaknesses with pain and intimidation, because it's a huge waste of energy and everyone loses in the end.If you really want a woman to fantasize about you for the rest of her natural life, then you must touch that emotional spot with Excitement, Inspiration and Compassion.
[Post edited by: smiley on 01/8/07 12:10 PM]
[Post edited by: smiley on 01/8/07 12:13 PM]
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Mercy
Number Posts: 8
Last Post: 07.08.2007, 14:52
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| Wednesday, 01. August 2007 at 16:25 |
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Smiley, you sound so heartless. I pity any woman who might fall to a heartless beast's charm like yours. It sounds like you are very selfish and view women as objects that should be used as a man wishes, women have hearts and souls. If you are not ready to protect that part of a woman , then YOU don't deserve any living woman's love!!!. No wonder there's so much violence towards women that is going on, with a mentality like yours, I can be sure of reading the news headlines of yet another woman's BODY pieces found in one of the Country's dustbins, again!! Shame on all you men out there who think like that!! if you really want a woman to love and respect you, you need to love and accept yourself first. It sounds to me that you feel like you need to find value and acceptance from the women you propose, and if they refuse, you retaliate because it just remind you all the more how vulnerable you feel within yourself.
if you don't sort yourself out first, you can be assured that once a woman finds out your true identity she will be looking for the EXIT!! Then since your idea of dealing with rejection is banging your head in the walls, like you said in your post, you will banging your head in the sofas for the rest of your life. you shld not look for accecpance with people before you find it within yourself. Start being true to yourself then you can be true to the people around you. self value comes from oneself, if you don't have that for yourself how can you demand that of another person and whose standard are you using if you don't have any?
I know you wld want to bang my head in the wall too, but I am just saying the truth. If you feel vulnerable THEN YOU are Really VULNERABLE!!
see every woman as somebody's mother in the future if not now. All you women out there don't, let a guy give you less than what you desrve, you are princess and you deserve to be treated like one!!
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Jean-Marie
Number Posts: 419
Last Post: 05.09.2008, 17:30
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| Thursday, 28. February 2008 at 16:27 |
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Smiley is very stupid!
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cecy
Number Posts: 1
Last Post: 26.04.2008, 18:30
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| Saturday, 26. April 2008 at 18:30 |
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but first i want to ask if she ever told u that she loves u,
cauz i think the gal is jst playing with your feelings, and if she never told u that she loves u then how can u believe and have hope that she is the right woman for u? It might that the gal wanted something that she thot u have but later on when she found out that u dont than she decided to hate u because the are some gals who are just i interested in ccc.
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yung bee
Number Posts: 13
Last Post: 01.09.2008, 22:48
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| Thursday, 22. May 2008 at 17:51 |
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YOH SMILEY !!!!! Dude thats not the way to talk to any lady...i mean im also a man,but we need to respect woman...u dissapoint me as a man braaa mom is a SUPERWOMAN and i respect her whole heartedly therefor i also rspect other woman...........text
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Inna
Number Posts: 21
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 19:05
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 01:35 |
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Move on!
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Smillie
Number Posts: 7
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 10:36
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 10:36 |
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thank you very much at least you understand what it feels to fall in love. I just want ask move on? what do youreal mean? look for someone else or what must i do?
God bless you
Jackson
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owela
Number Posts: 2
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 13:48
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 13:48 |
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Inna u are familia,dont u want 2 mit OWELA? u sound very interesting.how about a little introduction? make fast
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Inna
Number Posts: 21
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 19:05
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 18:18 |
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You are welcome. By move on I meant,look for someone else.....because that lady seems not to love you as you do...
All the best and take care.
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Inna
Number Posts: 21
Last Post: 03.09.2008, 19:05
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 18:27 |
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Owela,
No,I don't want to meet OWELA! LOL! introduction?well,I am just Inna....
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