 Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Mysterio
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 11:14 |
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Which one between the two is really accountable for the spreading of AIDS??
That question is always driving me crazy, because I really wonder which one is more unstable if it comes to cheating and having many partners.
Let me talk from my own observations on the sexual behaviours and characteristics of the two parties.
1. The Guys = Are more likely to focus on the new faces so much, meaning that they are pretty much looking for Love everytime regardless of whether they are home or away. Correct me if am wrong to say that "That might be because they are the group that is having the power to approach a lady".
2. The Girls = They are men's gifts from God, that has less power to approach guys. They always pretends to be calm whenever they are home but they are the players whenever away. Condom is their least word to consider.
According to those characteristics, I have decided to come up with my half conclusions on this matter of which I will base it on the "Condom point"
- Guys are good if it comes to AIDS consideration, coz that's the very first thing to come in their minds if it comes to dating.
-The ladies are the one's that are spreading AIDS much because they don't consider the Condom. due to the fact that "They don't fear AIDS but Pregnancy because of it's visibility (Bulged Tummy).
Oppose or confirm it coz I want this myth to be "Busted"!!
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nambili
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 13:50 |
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Assuming you are correct that ladies don't care much about the use of a condom and that the decision lies with the guy, then it should also follow that:
* An HIV positive man who doesn't use condoms is deliberately spreading the virus.
* An HIV negative man who doesn't use condoms is negligent and infects himself in the process. He then becomes an HIV positive man who deliberately spreads the virus.
From this point of view men are responsible for spreading the virus if we absolve women of all blame and consider them to be either victims or unwilling transmitters. If it was really a case of deciding between women and men, I would say it is the men because in most cases:
* They initiate the relationship. If they are HIV positive, they could reveal this beforehand or at least be careful. If they are negative, they should chose carefully who they go into a relationship with.
* They initiate sex. They can choose to abstain but once a girl says "Yes" to a guy, she can hardly say "No" to sex.
* The most available, most common and cheapest condom goes onto their equipment. A lady can insist but under the cover of darkness a guy can trick her or remove it.
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dissy
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 14:22 |
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i think guys!
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Mysterio
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 14:26 |
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Good Nambili. I understand your point very well coz you mean that the guys are the ones that are transmitting AIDS than the ladies due to the fact that they will go on lookin for lovers even though they know that they are infected.
Lets think about this one: An infected man sleeps with a gal "unprotected sex", then they drop each other. The gal will be proposed by another man, coz the gals are the ones that are having less power in proposing but much power in agreeing, she agrees. Datin, no condom coz the guy never had one or expected the gal to ask for it. After some times, they break up and the gal get another man ------ the list goes -------------
In that case, who is infecting than the other?? Do you know that sometimes a man can stay for a long time without a lover even though he is proposing??, while a lady is always deciding on when and whom to date the next week or day??
Ladies are transmitting more than guys for sure!!
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Pala
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 14:29 |
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Thanks mysterio for coming up with another educative topic. True speaking it seems in most women when it comes to relationship the is no.. word "No". Coz judging from what the women are responding to this topic the NO is 5% while Yes is 95% to them which is not good at all. To make it worse is that you will find a (women) nurse who is dealing with HIV patients everyday but it is very difficult for her to ask a partner to use condom otherwise partner insist to do so. What a hell is going on....? Women are now empowered to make decisions at all level but why not in relationships. It means HIV - or guy must decide where/when to use condoms or not bullsh By saying "A lady can insist but under the cover of darkness a guy can trick her or remove it". Is it shameful for the lady to see that the condom is on while the c..ck is going in her body or what? nowday sex can be done even while the light is on. There is no excuse there. Stand up and talk about this in public! Otherwise those careless guys will end up infecting you.......To my observation gals are the one who's responsible of spreading the virus..........cos they don't know what is correct and what is wrong for them. Let here more from ladies............They are preaching to be educated now but ...........
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A guy who is HIV negative have been datin 2 girls for 6 months. both of the insisted on a codom. in the seventh month the guy told one girl that he want to be her fiancee and they should not use a condom anymore because they now know each other very well. the lady who is scare of loosing a man of her life and also aware of the other girl (consider a 51% to 49% of female to male) cannot refuse such an offer because she is luck among other women (remember he had a nother gf). on the eight month a man met a new girl who was dressed to kill ( 'this on is so prety that even ma mother wont refuse her' he though) and is appropriate for marrige. Forgoten that he spared one who is hiv negative and now dated this one for 3 months (If i am with you, I feel complete, he wispered one day). the lady made aware tht the guy is interested in her, she did not refuse to have a naked sex with him. In weekendes he visited each of his girlfriend and proposed sex without a condom because now is almost 1 years since we started dating. No need for condoms after a long time of dating. The third girlfried was HIV psitive and the guy infected the other two girfriend. As months and months are progressing, the guy met new down to earth new girls, proposed to them and sleep with them as he know that he is the master of decisions (remember that women are scared to force their man to use condom because once you let one to leave it will take you a year to get one to approach you). He kept infecting many girls as years are progressing. He drops one or both of his first girlfriend and they in return (is life mos, you cannot remain alone) approached and agreed and have sex with or without condoms. This guy continued, in some years he is dating 7 girls when is not peak yaer he dates four and infect each of them (remember the story of Coca cola manager in Oshakati reported in Informate last year). Now who is infecting more? the one who have a decision on condom use (man) or the one who do not insist on using a codom (woman)?
By the way guyz, 60% of women keep one partener a time (especialy when they had feeling tht the relationship will work) compare to only 20% of man who can keep one parterner at a time. So my conclusion, men spreads hiv then women even though each of the sex got it from another.
Man spread hiv more rapidly than women.
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Kachokwe
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 15:20 |
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Me I cann say who exactly but women tend to be more quite and not speak out and another thing there are femedom for them which according to some explanations given a person my insert in even at least some time before sex, but if I can ask how many women surprises their partners by doing that, because I understand lovers make appointment before hand and if a woman know that the will be sex why not just your partner find you already with your femedom in and avoid a risk of being tricked as some are saying here. or else carry the condoms and in case the guy say there is no condom the tell him I have mine and also make sure u see it yourself that the guy put it on properly and if its a femedom is properly inserted.
Communication is very important in relationship, therefore, ladies you need to be free to talk to your partner and make sure he understand you, but if you are shy or what, you are make yourself a victim.
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tulela
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 15:53 |
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woman are in fact more at risk of getting infected because of our social and economic vulnerability,this is also because many woman are engaged in sex work,and i strongly believes that we(woman) are not scared of geting the disease!!!!!!!
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Mysterio
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 17:07 |
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G4U, I am totally against your opinions because if you are saying that the man is infecting all the ladies like crazy, "YES" that's true. But imagine your first point, you said the man is negative Right?? From where did he trap the virus from?? From the 3rd lady. Okay. Where did the 3rd lady contract that virus from?? We both dunno knw. How many did she infect be4 that guy?? Still a mystery.
Lets get into its details, The third lady has contracted the disease simply from having unprotected sex with guys, and she has proved it by accepting unprotected penetration. For how long are they gonna stay in that relationship?? We both dunno know. Remember that you said "she was dressed to kill" soon after breaking up she will still dress the same and change the route or location to the other "simply looking for a second unfortunate guy in this case" am saying the second unfortunate guy coz so far we only know that she has infected one. As the time is going on, she will be jumping up and down like a frog infecting innocent guys coz of her crazy behaviours that she is scared of loosing a guy if she insist on a condom.
Remember that, there might be 95% for that infected lady not to be aware of her health status and she is not jumping up and down with the purpose of infecting, but to enjoy life "to satisfy her sexual demands".
The guy who is infeceted now, will only pass on that AIDS after having slept with a lady probably for 6 mnths or longer because what is always in the men's minds if it comes to unprotected sex is AIDS. That man will infect 4 people a year. Fine!!! How many people will that lady or every lady that is that type infecting in a year?? Dont forget that they don't fear AIDS but pregnancy.
Ladies are more likely to spread AIDS than boys because they are not open about condoms and Aids but more open about pregnancy, which they are able to control coz they are 95% sure of when they are able to fall pregnant.
Imagine then what a lady will say if you request having unprotected sex the time she knows that she wont fall pregnant, do you think she will really mind?? No, she will just deny so you cannot find her weak but she dont really consider it a serious matter which might be having AIDS hidden behind. All will go on well. Then imagine that to how many people is she gonna do that.
About the point of keeping one partner, lets not even brainstorm on that coz it is of no use at all. People are now being caught with panties down even at work regardless of whether is a man or a woman. Who is guilty in that case and what will you do if you catch your partner cheating on you?? Will you leave him/her for another person or you will be staying with your pure cheater?? If you are a lady and infected by that person "cheater" and you finds a handsome guy who is negative and request you for unprotected sex what will you say?? remember that denying might end up in a man loosing hope in you coz its like you mistrust him. Bear in mind also that, men that insist on unprotected sex are not always infected.
Ladies please, you are killing the nation. Start to talk about Condoms openly to your partners, otherwise there will be no way AIDS will stop spreading.
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Mysterio
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| Monday, 28. April 2008 at 17:22 |
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Pala, you are talking. Just imagine a health worker "a student nurse or a nurse" empowered to preach how good it is to use the condom, and that person is working at the place where free condoms are being distributed but she cannot stand her partner to say "Honey, this has got to do with my own health, Lets use a Condom" nope!!
All she will focus on is only that, he is my honey, he called me to meet him at his place tonight I should prepare myself and put on my make up!! Leaving her life "The Condom" behind.
I wont really blame them much for that coz it is not pretty much part of ths topic, but just imagine that How many student nurses are dating people that are elder than themselves with more than 15 years. The people that they have no control over if it comes to sex talking. Dont forget that, they covers their faces during penetration reasoning that they dont want to see how you are doing your ruthless things.
Now they are complaining that guys are snatching of the condoms, where do they really focus their attentions on if it is pleasure time???
Ladies be specific!!! Open your eyes if it is bedtime!! AIDS is real!!
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Rhymes
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| Tuesday, 29. April 2008 at 09:16 |
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Myysterio wrote:
The ladies are the one's that are spreading AIDS much because they don't consider the Condom. due to the fact that "They don't fear AIDS but Pregnancy because of it's visibility (Bulged Tummy).
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I was just wondering.......The way you prevent AIDS, is it nt the same way you prevent Pregnancy??? I strongly recommend u to reconsider your statement!!!!!
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Mysterio
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Rhymes, you must not be serious. If you are a man, then shame on you. If you are a Gal,then wake up.
Let me take you through this mini intro. Ladies are able to control themselves if it comes to falling pregnant coz they know exactly the days that it is likely to happen. Imagine then the lady whose period of falling pregnant is far whether she will really mind having unsafe sex. Then, too how many people is she gonna do so "accepting having unprotected sex coz she will not fall pregnant"??
Do you really follow this discussions?? It all started from the theme "Which one do ladies fear between AIDS and Pregnancy" and many percentages has shown that they fears Pregnancy coz of its visibility.
If you are now thinking that maybe I dont know what I mean by saying that the ladies are more likely to transmit AIDS, think about how many ladies are having fatherless children. What is the cause of that??
I want an answer from you!!
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Dai
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| Tuesday, 29. April 2008 at 16:55 |
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Consider this 2 sentenced statement "The ladies are the one's that are spreading AIDS much because they don't consider the Condom. due to the fact that "They don't fear AIDS but Pregnancy because of it's visibility (Bulged Tummy".
I might have gone beyond the line. I 100% disagree with you on this. You might be right that ladies contribute more on the HIV-AIDS spreading but dont tell me that it is simply because that they dont consider Condoms. There are some who are shy but 70-80%, you wont go 40 or unprotected sex with them, unless they really want to. I have realised that old ladies are at risk because of the way they were brought up without sex education in their families but dont play with the young people. Although most parents cannot talk about sex, young ones have the broad idea on what is going on!
In case of Men. Why will he get involved in sexual activities without a condom? We are selling our lives here, dont just say that your galfriend dont want to use a condom and you get engaged into unprotected sex. We are not talking of a 1 person's protection but for all people involved (partners). i might not fear of Aids but how about you? Dont you afraid of putting your life at risk?
Lets not come to conclusion of who is spreading more that the others. We are all responsible in life and have got plans to reach. Dont get infected and start blame your partner, same apply to pregnancy! Were were you when you get iinfected? Where you asleep? This is an output results for all and it is a 50/50 results! If you agree for an unprotected sex, is because you want to. I WILL AGREE IF ONE GET INFECTED AFTER BEING RAPED! We are all putting our lives at risk and expect everything in a sex-engaged relationship unless you all know your status! LETS OPEN OUR EYES AND NOT BLAME OTHERS WHEN IT COMES TO UNEXPECTEDS! UNDER CORRECTIONS!
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Mysterio
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| Tuesday, 29. April 2008 at 17:06 |
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Dai, you have busted this myth already coz you have agreed that the ladies are the one that are spreading AIDS more than the guys. That's what the Topic is about coz am tryna find out which gender really.
Thanks for the other things that you explained clearly. Your point is clear!! If you think am wrong, come back!!
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Dai
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I said they might be spreading but not because of their "shyness behaviour in relation to condom use". To my opinion, Men are 80% infecting people with AIDS!
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Mysterio
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| Tuesday, 29. April 2008 at 17:38 |
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Okay, thats fine now that you still want some more to prove me right.
Men are more likely to infect!! "YES" but Ladies are the spreading ones!!!
How do you like this story: A single gal has been dating people and nobody knew it even her partners were not aware that she is such a player.
She proceeded with the so-called enjoying life to the Maximum, she was then unfortunate to fall pregnant. The time to find who is the mastermind behind the pregnancy came, she never knew where to face coz she dunno exactly who is the responsible. She was forced to mention those whom she slept with. The list went from one guy. Then the guy denied and he never refused accepting that she had unprotected sex with her. Okay fine!! People started spoiling and forcing her that she will end up with giving birth to a fatherless child. That hurted her like crazy, and just decided to write a list of the guys that she is sure that she slept with 40. She came up with 8 "eight" people excluding the one that she mentioned first. That gave a total of 9 people in 1 lady.
Imagine then that, if that lady is/was HIV positive, then she has infected 8 people, while the man who has infected her has just infected 1 so far. Then multiply that by the time the guy is gonna infect the 3rd lady, the lady is already close to 20. "Very fast hey"
Then which gender is spreading fast than the other?? Imagine also that how many gals are having fatherless childs. That is simply because they dont know really who has impregnated them. And the list goes on if it comes to serious questioning about who might be the father.
Simply just conclude from that text + the clear picture of fatherless childs. Hopin am clear
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Dai
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| Wednesday, 30. April 2008 at 16:05 |
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not yet my dear! Fatherless childs doesnt mean their mothers have slept wth many and didnt know which one to father the unborn child. No dear! Let me tell you that many of the guys says that the pregnancies were not theirs simply because they are afraid or they were not in love with the chicks (it was just a one night stand, thats what they say). In addition, from a story of a gal with 9 boyfriends, what will you tell me? Analyze it my dear. Do you think all those 9 guys were only having one lady? i bet not and are they from the same area? This can be a real story but there are certain issues that we can conclude out of it. As far as i know, if a guy finds out that you are cheating on him (even if he is also cheating), he will decide to dump you or to make a fool of you. How come they were all dating one girl, funny hey!
I dont think this gal is a player but a something else. I am satisfied thou but with lots of question ringing in m ears! "a person dating 9"
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
kei
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i work in the hospital specifically at the hiv aids, vct,malaria, ppmtct clinics.
here are the facts in our country: the heppenig is every gender spreads hiv coz right now even if you read in any sentinatal reports you wont get any thing steting a gender that highly spreads the hiv, we should not also focus on that coz that wont help with our current situtation.
but if we look at our statistics for hiv aids to day it shows a bigger percentage for females on the programme, this is because females come for testing in big numbers than males, so is the opposite in the figures for the death rate, males are dying in big numbers because they dont test to know their status and if positive go on medication to prolong their lives.
meanwhile the age group that is higly spreading the hiv is from 24-40 and this according to the current statistics.
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Mysterio
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Kei, you did not read and understand the Topic very well or if you have done so, then you have refused to answer it in the correct way.
By saying that "We should not focus on the gender that is spreading HIV coz that wont help us with our current situation" I am proving you wrong and totally against it!! This will be a very educative topic and more aimed at combating the spreading of the pandemic coz both genders will learn from each other "probably on the negatives that are more likely to cause the disease" coz we are all capable of abstaining as well as to protect ourselves from it.
Yes, it is true that both genders are spreading HIV/AIDS, we then wanna figure out that which one is spreading much than the other "the topic has indicated that".
About the statistics and the current figures, thats a very good contribution and I think we will all learn from them either from the point that "The ladies are the ones that are toping the figures due to the fact that they go for testings" or from the point that "The boys are ignorant of the tests and that is making their life expectancy short".
Don't alter the theme, but rather make positive contributions since we are still in doubts of which gender is much spreading the disease.
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Goddy
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I think can look at your question in this way: genter vs HIV/AIDS
We don't just have to look at social behaviours and sexual tactics but also from biological point of view.
In this case, i don't need statistics to direct me. Wish to make it clear here that, if a man is HIV/AIDS positive, he is likely (with 99%) to pass that virus to any woman gonna sleep with without protection. When it comes to woman HIV/AIDS positive: Here things are a bit complicated coz you have now to put men into two category(namely those with foreskin and those without it). A man with foreskin practising unprotected sex with HIV/AIDS positive woman is at the danger compared to that one without foreskin. This is for that reason that, men are being advised to remove their foreskin.
There is no direct answer to that question friends, what one should do is just to stick to already known rules and regurations on HIV/AIDS prevention. The good thing when it comes to HIV/AIDS is that, it is preventable.
I rest my contribution for now.
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
kei
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| Monday, 19. May 2008 at 09:55 |
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Mysterio, thanx for your opinion. but let me say this now, for us working with aids in hospital we a advinced/ discouraged to point out the issue of which gender spreads the hiv the most but rather look at the age group spreading the hiv the most, this is why when the statistics is given out to the public, its given as 1 figure not male or female. this in it self means we dont have to blame one gender for the high numbers, rather support those positive, and at the same time look at the issue of reducing the hiv aids prevalence in the country.
am not saying or pin-pointing any gender for the high statistics coz we a in a situation where by if we play the blame game we will all die of the same hiv coz we are not using our time to fight the enermy but fight each other, its like this HIV/AIDS vs human lives, not famale vs male on hiv/aids. i hope we understand what am saying so.
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Mysterio
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| Monday, 19. May 2008 at 14:20 |
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Kei, we are all having good understandings of why we are writing this and that and am not a fool or nut to raise a topic like this one meaning that I did not decide on this topic because I want to make it the man vs woman in the way that I want to make or emphasize ourselves to spread it, but it is with the aim of trying to figure out what our understanding about the spreading of the virus is amongst both genders on which we will try to deduce the conclusions and measures as to what we should put fore.
This topic is not focused on encouraging the spread but to alert and awaken our minds because AIDS is real and prevention is better than cure and if we are just quiet not brainstorming on the issue of which gender is spreading more than the other as the ministry has ignored it, then we wont be able to take the right measurements and exercises to combat the spreading since we have ignored a certain part ----The researches and all measures will prove futile since there is a part that is ignored and you are still claiming it to be ignored.
AIDS is a wide context if it comes to understandings, meaning that it is just like a textbook that you have to study for the Exam coz it is hvaing many topics that you have to consider, read/study and understand in order to pass--- Imagine then if you ignore one topic and it comes in the Exam. Will you be able to make it? Lets not ignore areas of the great importance. What yourself and the Ministry is exercising and advising to ignore this point has already shown how you have put the planning to fail theme into practice.
The topic is aimed at figuring out which group is currently spreading much --but I did not include anything like the gender that is topping the list/figures ---- coz I dont want to stir confusions but rather to ride the ladder from the low step to the highest. Figuring out which group is more likely to spread one can know which one is the right thing to do regardless of whether is a man or woman --Hoping am clear so far.
About revealing the results of the tests as the measure to make people aware of whats going on and how they should controll themselves is just part of fighting AIDS because it is not complete in itself, the same way my topic is. I therefore think and understand that it is now good that we are having two areas of focus in combating under this forum, - namely 1. The gender that is more likely to spread and 2. The figures/statistics of the test results.
There is no fight for each other but a way forward to cover even the areas that the ministry has ignored.
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
kei
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I think this will be my last opinion because you a asking a question and you want people to answer they way they think its right, it looks like there is something you want to here.
None the I will tell you that it’s us the MALES spreading the HIV/AIDS to support my sentence am saying:
1. Men right now have a bigger number of concurrent and intergenerational relationships. Whereby the two (concurrent and intergenerational) a major mojor contribution factor to the spread of hiv/aids. I hope now I have contributed to your question coz this question you asked is off Corse important for us as the active youth to discus and share ideas and this will as well be a good platform to learn from each other.
In Namibia, HIV & AIDS is primarily spread through sexual contact, but is fuelled by the following:
- Poverty and inequality
- Alcohol and substance abuse
- Unprotected sex and multiple sexual partners (concurrent and intergenerational relationships)
- Gender Based Violence and inequality
- Highly mobile populations and cross border travel
- Stigma and discrimination
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Alu
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| Monday, 19. May 2008 at 16:42 |
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| Re: Which gender is much spreading AIDS? Guys or Gals? |
Mysterio
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| Monday, 19. May 2008 at 17:51 |
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Kei, being a worker under the Ministry of health does not mean that everything regarding HIV/AIDS is more than clear to yourselves. There are so many things that we need to explore from each other in order to have a fruitful conclusion in the fight of this deadly disease. Therefore am urging you not to use force where it is not required.
About the topic itself as I have already told you that this is one area of coverage that the Ministry and its employees including yourself has ignored, its good that you have contributed and vowed your understanding that it is boys and you have accompanied it with the valid reasons.
If I am to dig deep into your reasons, I can deduce two terms that I think you should put into consideration if it comes to the spreading of the disease. There are people that are infected and they are not that players, although they are to transmit it to another person, there is a very wide possibility for the two to have the very big difference "amount of those they have infected throughtout the year" possibly the second one --the victim will be having infected many people more than the one who sow the disease in him/her.
Therefore we should differentiate between
1.The transmitter ---of which I can define in this context as the person who is infected and the primary source of the disease in the Love tree -- Hopin you got it!!
2. The spreader -- either the person who is the primary source of the disease or the secondary source in the love tree and more distributing the disease at an unbearably rate -- a player!!
We then have to dig deep into those terms and figure out other external factors related to sexual activities especially pregnancy, of which many ladies has defined as the most scarying and first to come in mind if a man insists on unsafe sex. Lets brainstorm on the things that are worth building coz we all need to educate each other -- none of us is ever 100% of whats what in AIDS fight -- otherwise the cure could havent been a matter of concern but rather forehand implemented.
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