 Do distance Relationship really work? |
Nashi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 09:52 |
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I have been in a distance relationship for 5 years, where i get to see my bf once in 2 months. Do you guys think it is working or im fooling myself. i would really appreciate your response.
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baby G467
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Last Post: 07.11.2008, 11:55
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 10:11 |
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some how Jusmine .................
if u think its kinda workin out then its simply the best
but sum guys can fool us just under our noses...
they act as if they r realy into us but deep down they are thinkin of sum1 els....
and if u some how somwere heard sumthing about im cheating on u then try to find more out on his issue................
i think u are happy with the relationship coz u stayed for the whole 5 years...............
this means there is some connection between and understanding each other rite?
if yes than dont make it more difficult 4 u ok..............
if u guys realy love each other than go for it.............
dont give yet coz i think that you guys can make it work.............
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
smol1
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 10:16 |
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yes it does work. it happened to my cusin and nw shes maryd
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
Peke
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 12:22 |
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i think it depends i cant really say it works but what matters is honesty and trust. it can be on a long distance or short but it the two dont realy undertand each other cheating can be there distance wont be a barrier, ma advice is lets work with a theme that says 'together we will do irrespective of how far or how close we are'. But yoo its not easy
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
Peke
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 12:26 |
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Hi Jus' u are not foolish at all, but ma Q is are u sure he got the same feelings and is happy with that and u did not suspect anything fishy (like him going out with another chick that side). i am just saying coz guys are pigs u they know how to play their cards close to their hearts so that no one else will c , just watch out
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LA88
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 13:29 |
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Yes is does...... i hope you guys wen you see each other you talk. thats all thats matters COMMUNICATION and other stuff ofcourse
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Peke
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 13:38 |
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u are right, but if there are break downs in communication i mean u communicate often and he does not
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
Nashi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 15:19 |
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Ja i know of someone also and today they are family....i do trust him and i have never suspected anything like for example cheating and staff..but i do have friends as in boys and when they ask me where i bf is and i tell them, some of them start to laugh right in my face...thinking that im crazy dating a guy that i see in once in 2 month..but he works there and he tries his level best to come down and see me whenever he have a chance... at times i avoid thinking of this whole thing..coz i dont wanna end up frustrating myself but i love my guy and if he had to ask my hand in mirrage i will definitely not think twice!
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V.m'boy
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 15:24 |
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they absolutely do my dear, believe me, i am making it work.
Like especially in your case, i think its not a big temptation as you guys see each other once in two months unlike me who visits my girlfriend three times a year. ofcourse am not boosting that our relationship is strong despite the distance, what im saying is, i no more cheat the way i did, maybe just two times in a year and i always tell those girls that i am committed to someone who is far away.
I think the best way to make distance relationship work is to communicate to each other frequently in order to remind your partner how much you miss him/her.
You can cheat but if you are caught then thats the end of it.
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Nashi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 15:25 |
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Thanx Peke i will watch out..ok i have never heard or suspect him cheating..but that still doesnt mean he does not cheatws...thats only my opinion but maybe someone else living in that town will have a different opinion. but i do love the guy and im crazy about him...
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Vusi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 16:08 |
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Keep up the good Work Girl, u real are doing fine in your relation and i hope u gonna reach your destination with him. I wuold say he is very fortunate to have you....some1 who thinks about him.... despite the distance.
I wish your dreams will come true somedays!!!!!!!!!!
GoodLuck!!!!!
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Nashi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 17:44 |
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Thanx Vusi...u dont know how much encouragement i just put on after your post....you are a life safer....lol
[Post edited by: Jusmine on 13/6/08 5:46 PM]
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
Nashi
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 17:49 |
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Hi V.m'boy eish cant belive someone is going throught the same thing....if you making it work why cant I..eish love your girl man im sure she appreciates you too. ja ja cheating can really turn out badly if you get cought..watch it!
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Sunroof
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| Friday, 13. June 2008 at 17:50 |
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hey,hey! distance relationship is a RISKY business!! #1.99% ur partner is cheating! #2.U re on a hi RISK of contracting HIV aid! #3. get a cool boy!
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Sacramento
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| Saturday, 14. June 2008 at 02:33 |
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Take my advise, it doesnt full stop. listen also to Sunroof.
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2chi
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| Saturday, 21. June 2008 at 18:34 |
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ya, it works, so long u understand each othr ant there 4 each otha, right now im in a distance relationship,we c each other afta 4 mnths but we chat often, but what matter is faithfulness, cos the person calls u wth many rizons esp, dont wanna hurt you, dont wanna loss you and of course love. when he calls and give u whatever you need frm him, then you r nt fooling urself elsewhere he is fooling himself with what he spend 4 calling you.
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| Pls save my lyf |
Babe/Cute!
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 13:23 |
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I hve been dating a guy 4 almost 2 yrs en half,he is gud en i dnt wnt break up wit him. Lots of guys propose me en my answr is always NO! Thy kip on cuming bck sayng dat thy wont giv up. The worse is a class-mate begd me 2 giv him a chance jst a litle a chance 2 proof dat he cares en loves me. I did,even thou I knw its vry risk 4 my relationshp.He askd 4 sex en I refused,Im a virgin en he doesnt wnt 2 believe me.Im only ready 2 lose my virginity 2 1 man.Im afraid im hurting him bt i hve no choice,itold him 2 move on wit his lyf bt he syd he only luvs me. Pls hlp!!!!!!!!!!! I wl apreciate evry advce bt pls dnt judge me.
Til nxt tym!!!!!!!!!
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SUP
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:11 |
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Hahaha! chtin is somtin els!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I'm minding me
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:15 |
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You suppose to address yo problem by choosing not to cheat
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| Re: Do distance Relationship really work? |
oubas
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:17 |
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after spending five years with him and you'r starting to dout him only know why girl? why just now? why dont you tell us the hole story then maybe we'll help you,so is he cheating on you or are you cheating on him or maybe his a farm boy and now you've found your self a city boy so you can have a short distance relationship,so which one is it five years and only now somethig fishy going on.
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Maths
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:22 |
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U think u are funny? what advise do u want if u cheatin,,,,,,, want some advise hah? LET HIM BREAK U! Advise pls, advise pls...., what the fvck? Get ova urself and get a life....bitch!
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I'm minding me
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:26 |
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A true girl never cheat, only break up and move to the next, if you double dating then you're a bitcch.
not to offend you, just to let you know that if you're real, then you couldn't cater for 2 guys
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Lessy467
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:31 |
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Leave the girl alone peeps, she was wrong buy cheating but she need yo advice ok
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mcarla
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 14:53 |
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gal blieve me it does work. much luv!
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noty
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| Thursday, 24. July 2008 at 15:14 |
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They rly work out gal.......................................! If u truly love him than nothing will destroy that.
All the best gal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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