 What is the best way of apologising? |
Vusi
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| Thursday, 19. June 2008 at 18:45 |
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What should one do to get be forgiven after breaking his lovers heart?
Let's share experiences and learn from others!
Waiting for your replies!!!!!
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sp1
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| Friday, 20. June 2008 at 11:49 |
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Mistakes do happen js tell the truth....and you will be 4gvn. The truth please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All the best.
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Lessy467
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| Friday, 20. June 2008 at 13:15 |
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Teling da ruth, being honest and being faithfull to each other will be an added advantage, if your partner usually don't believe you dan it wil be very hard to trust you again. P.S You will be 4given but it will be very hard 4 ur partner 2 4get what happen
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Jean-Marie
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| Friday, 20. June 2008 at 13:24 |
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Have you done something wrong to her and you are looking for help on here ?
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Dai
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| Monday, 23. June 2008 at 10:26 |
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I agree with my colleagues, Truth.
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Hate
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| Monday, 23. June 2008 at 15:50 |
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Tell the truth dear and u should really show that u regret what u did and it wont happen again and plz the truth. and u cant expect 2 be 4given more than once unless u are lucky
[Post edited by: Hate on 23/6/08 3:53 PM]
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ndakoro
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| Monday, 23. June 2008 at 16:12 |
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My friend in relationships the truth does not always set you free, but it all depends on what you did to break the persons heart, suggestion will be rather give the person time to cool off for a couple of day's and then start traeting the special. Show the person that you deeply regret your actions and you don't want to loose at any cost.
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Nameless
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| Monday, 23. June 2008 at 17:03 |
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the only lesson to learn from that is never lie to your lover it's terrible.
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Vusi
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 11:08 |
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ndakoro u sound great. Why? Coz in my case i already told the truth but she doesn't want to forgv me.
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Nameless
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 11:31 |
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I think you have done your part. What you should do don't act too needy or pushy otherwise she will think you cannot live without her. Tell her you have done what needed to be done which is apologising and telling the truth and you cannot force her to love you. Tell her if she doesn't wanna be with you, you can understand but you want to give her time to think about it. Women hates to be dumped and the moment she sees that you are not pushy and keeping your distance she will come along if she is the one for you.
We waste so much time forcing people to love us that we don't even get a chance to see those who wants to be with us for real. But if you want to keep forcing her than, go ahead. I think when it comes to relationship we, women always have high hopes of how our men should behave (no cheating, no lies, buy gifts etc), but in real life its not as such. In real life there are challenges and one of them is cheating, is up to you who have been cheated on to find peace with your partner and work on the relationship to avoid further problems. But if you have been doing or repeating the same thing over and over, then maybe she has given-up on you that you will never really change.
Advice from a woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Vusi
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 11:59 |
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Me and the girl have known each other from our childhood, and there's no way to avoid crushing into one another. This is what hurts me a lot coz she doesn't want to forgv me for smthng i did four years ago. We had a relationship which i wasn't so into it. When i realised that i don't love her i told her, and that was four years ago and until now when we meet she doesn't want to talk to me.
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Hate
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 13:01 |
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My dear friend that was painful for her because she was into it while u were not! U cant blame her for not forgiving u coz she might still be hurting everytime she c u. some ppl do not forget quickly what happened and she stil believe u dont love her.
If she doesnt want than i guez u should leave her alone or give her time again mayb she will cool down
i hope u learned a leason
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ndakoro
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 13:54 |
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My dear friend vusi if she wasn't good enough for you 4 years ago, what make her good enough for you now. what did you find in her 4 years ago that you are seeing in her now. Why do you want her to forgive you so bad, do you want her back now all the sudden after 4 years or do you only want to be her friend. Did you even consider the fact that she might have moved on with her life and got herself a new lover. Time does not wait for anyone including you vusi you had your time and you wasted it so rather make the most of the time that you still have ahead of you and stop tourchering yourself over spilt milk.
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Vero
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 13:58 |
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Wu! telling somebody "I dont love you anymore" is a big insult and believe me it hurts to death. Forgivness in that particular case is very rare or otherwise takes time. Im not saying she will never be back but putting myself in her shoes i wouldnt like to see you again. That was a bad statement honestly, and thats one thing you should never do to a lady, if you truly want her.
Good luck
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Superman
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 14:11 |
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Vero wassup?
super
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Vero
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| Friday, 27. June 2008 at 16:06 |
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Is alright Bra, how is it then Super?
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Vusi
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| Monday, 30. June 2008 at 12:18 |
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It is not about wanting her to be a lover, but what i want from her is friendship. This is because we are neighbours and every time we run into each. Telling her that i don't love her was not a mistake, but the truth and i don't regret saying it. I said this to be honest to her and to myself as well. Unfortunately it turned out to be hurting to her and it's all my fault to have made her falling for a wrong person. What i want is her forgiveness and brotherly love from her. And now guys tell me what to do to make her do all these coz one day u might find urself in my shoes.
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laimy
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| Monday, 30. June 2008 at 13:09 |
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i think it is better if you tell her that u were jokin and u only wanted to see if she truly lovs ya. do it in a good way then may be taking her out or something unexpected for her. be careful,,,,, she might think u wants her now...just show that u dont mean what u've said to her. Enjoy!!!!!!!!
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Hate
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| Monday, 30. June 2008 at 13:23 |
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Its good that u told her the truth and not many guyz who tell girls that they dont love them. but it was painful and not clear 2 her that some1 u though loves u doesnot. try 2 talk 2 her again and explain thaat u only want 2 be friends coz she might think u a interested again. if she doesnt want 2 be friends than leave her alone. in my point of view u did the right thing 2 tell the truth although it hurts.
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Sacramento
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| Tuesday, 01. July 2008 at 15:10 |
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The truth, not always bra, sometimes you need to save your ass, and the truth isnt helping olways. And the say that the truth hurts makes lot of sence, anywayz, many girls cant handle the truth, it can be bad, such as Sorry babe, but I am in love with your sister now, or I just slept with your best friend and I like her more?
If it is just a matter of saying I dont love you anymore, fine, but what if it is those other situations?
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souljagal
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| Wednesday, 23. July 2008 at 13:29 |
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i agree with always stick 2 the truth. n sum how it depnds on wat you have to apologise.
if you dont wanna hurt that sum1 wen u know the truth willjst hurt the sum1, jst tl sumthn close to the truth
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ezer
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| Wednesday, 23. July 2008 at 14:23 |
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The best way is to tell the Truth dear nd i am there 4 u.
just tell the truth
ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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tigerlily
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| Tuesday, 05. August 2008 at 09:56 |
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sometimes it takes more than just saying that you are sorry man. tell her that you sincerely convienely apologize for what you did. cry if you have to.
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