 high marriage rate v/s high divorce rate |
Dai
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 12:48 |
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Lots of people are getting married and many are divorcing their partners in Namibia. What are the factors associated to this? Help me to understand why?
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PrincessDally
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Last Post: 10.10.2008, 14:29
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 13:20 |
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Factors are: Abusive, love lost, true colours shown after marriage and friends & family involvement....
from your side?
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EPANGELO
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Last Post: 07.10.2008, 08:39
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 13:53 |
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Because of you modern girls no love in the first place. u want to get married coz the guy have a nice NAVARA and a beautiful house, u get married today and all ur properties are now treated as one, 6 months later u start doing ur things that u know ur husband will not torelate, then he is no more interested in you but that's what u wanted in the first place. Now u jump around the NAVARA is mine or otherwise take the house. wat the hell is that u come with nothing hallow !!!!!!!
Serious that rule need to be revised so that married incommunity of property is only valid after 10 years of ur married. Gals otamukengelele aantu
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chuma
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Last Post: 23.08.2008, 00:57
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 16:28 |
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I completely agree with princessDally. Marriage rate is high because when someone is financially stable, the first thing to think of is to find a partner to build a family with and the high divorce rate is caused by the incompatibilities mentioned earlier by Princess. Nowadays people can start dating in august and December is the wedding. Do you really expect that marriage to last? Why don’t you men take time to know you wife to be? Epangelo, are the men the only people who owns properties or what? Nowadays more women are even more successful than men. Are those women not married? And if they are married are their men earning more than they do? I agree that there are those crazy women who are nothing but simply gold diggers but I also believe there are some men who fall in the same category. Let’s not put the blame on women only, both sides contributes to the matter!
Dai, I salute you for bringing up an interesting issue!
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Kachokwe
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Last Post: 25.09.2008, 16:38
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 16:35 |
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Thank Dai for the important topic and I would like to air my views as I have analysed ad discovered as far as this topic is concern. There are a lot of factors that are contributing to high divorce rate in Namibia such as 1. disrespect of culture among the young couple, 2. Get into marriage by accident or not ready, 3. abusive of alcohol and drugs 4. influence of modern technology, 5.Involvement of the third part in the couple affairs i.e. family/relative members or Bad Friends etc the list is long.
Nowadays couple are ignoring their cultural value and practices e.g. in oshiwambo culture a man is head of the house irrespective of what he is capable for and has to be respected by his wife and all members of the family, and a woman as body of the house. its obvious that the head cannot function without a body and vis versa but today you will find these thing being ignored i.e. a woman acting as head because of equality or because she the one earning the high income, or a man abusing the headmanship to control everything and dictate instead of respect one another and agree on everything to be done or undertaken as family matter.
Furthermore, some people just get into marriage because his/her friend did so, but they may not be ready to take the responsibility of being couple either mentally or economically.
On alcohol and drugs I think everyone nows the consequence of these thing and the can fast destroy marriage.
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Sunroof
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Last Post: 25.09.2008, 16:00
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| Tuesday, 15. July 2008 at 16:47 |
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People re divorcing because of sexual problems. In most cases after marriege no blowjobs, and it bad for us guys. We cant live without blowjobs. Happy Sex+Good money = Happy marriege!!
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Dai
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| Wednesday, 16. July 2008 at 09:20 |
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Thanks for your contribution
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Dai
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| Wednesday, 16. July 2008 at 09:21 |
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Thank you Chuma
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EPANGELO
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Last Post: 07.10.2008, 08:39
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| Thursday, 17. July 2008 at 12:27 |
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Yes Chuma not all women are like that but the majorities are of that nature, 90% of men proposing marriege to you they really mean it, there might be some men but very scarce seriously, I am not deffending men simply because I am a man but that 's the reality in many cases. You guys mst change and spread the message to your female colleagues in the country to have best marriages ever.
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