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fat88
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Last Post: 20.07.2008, 19:06
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| Sunday, 20. July 2008 at 19:06 |
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I am 20 yrs and not seeing any1 at the moment but i dated before. there is this guy (a colleague) who have shown interest in me, we didn't rily sit and talk but he just told me to think about it then we talk about it with time.
when we met at the begining he told me that he has a galfriend who stay in the north & i lied to him that i am seeing someone. I am now confused coz i have been praying to meet the man of my life and i feel like he might be the 1 but on the other hand, i am threatened by the gal in the north & i dont want to regret the decision i am going to take. pls i need your ideas on this!!!!!
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teamtalk
Number Posts: 28
Last Post: 29.08.2008, 17:57
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| Monday, 21. July 2008 at 09:50 |
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fa88
I hope you are fine too,
you ar so honest for not seeing any 1 at this stage.
now, u are near by entering the challenges of life, what u need to do is to find who is the other gal at the north and how is their relation to date. but, that is very difficult bcos I know the guy wont tell you the reality. Dont make an ad-hok decision. If you are also interested in a guy, u can make a decision with a probation of a specific period while you are studying him. this is a challege and it need serious and rational thinking and it is too early to determine whether this is a guy of your life at this stage.
hope you will get alittle from this sipmle advice
good day
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Qdapuka
Number Posts: 40
Last Post: 23.07.2008, 08:59
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| Monday, 21. July 2008 at 10:18 |
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My opinion is that, that guys seems to be honest on his part of being involved with another girl in the north. However he has not yet mentioned what will happen if you two get involved. Will he break up the relationship with his girl? He has not said anything about the state of their relationship. Don't you think maybe he is just trying to find somebody to console him while he is away from his girl? So all depends on you, whether you want to be his second girl or not. And that's why he told you to think about it, he told you his situation and now want feedback from you. From the look of things, he does not mind having another girl even if he's having another one already so what makes you think he will stick by you that long without adding to his list? Lady, the ball is in your court, we live our own lives, what makes one happy does not necessarily make everyone and so the most important thing is making ourselves happy. So go for whatever makes you happy in the end you will make the final choice regardless whatever transpires.......Good lucky
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Nameless
Number Posts: 45
Last Post: 21.08.2008, 14:04
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| Monday, 21. July 2008 at 10:38 |
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I think the reason he told you about that other girl is because he wants a no string attached relationship. Found out about that other girl and see if you can get to know about the status of their relationship. Make your decision based on what you want out of the relationship.
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oubas
Number Posts: 38
Last Post: 21.08.2008, 18:51
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| Tuesday, 22. July 2008 at 09:50 |
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Take it from a guy who knows what he's talking about girl,when a guy tells you he has another girl that means he only wants to play you and then latter dump you offcourse using the other girl as an excuse and it also means he doesn't love you or respect you cause if he did then he would'nt have dared telling you about his farm girl which he would proberbly end up marying ,so girl dont be so desprate for some one who doesn't give a dam,and dont just blow this of cause if you do you'r going to be sory.
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Tokyo
Number Posts: 62
Last Post: 20.08.2008, 02:03
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| Tuesday, 22. July 2008 at 23:29 |
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Oubas,you are right,bra!
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