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outlaw
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Last Post: 14.08.2008, 19:49
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 11:14 |
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me n my chick we had and argument on sunday,coz she sent me 2 sms
around 24h00 while i was sleeping.i didnt reply it that tym coz i got it in the morning
n then i reply her an sms and i even tel her that i didnt hear her sms that tym.
But here sms was the problem coz she said she will hurt me,but i mustn't blame her!i
just asked as to how she will hurt me and she said its none of my bussiness.i told her
that all she must know is that i luv her.i know she is 1 on the short tempered gals,and
everytym she argue i just have to apologose even if i know i am inocent.
But from there she didnt even write me an sms or just somthing,and i didn't too!i know
its confusing coz i dont think if i will make the 1st move tooo.pls wat do i have to do,i am
hurt by her silence and i hope she is too but no 1 is ready to make a first move this tym
and i dont think if i will make this 1st move no matter wat!
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slow-g
Number Posts: 9
Last Post: 21.08.2008, 15:08
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 11:34 |
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talk 2 her,prevent is better than cure.1 of u hs to make the 1st move whtere u wnt it or not,soo do it.It will show commited u r...
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0Byte
Number Posts: 264
Last Post: 16.11.2008, 17:27
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 11:45 |
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Are u in distance relacnship? better talk to her mouth to mouth. Just try to make an approach. Be brave!
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V.m'boy
Number Posts: 166
Last Post: 20.11.2008, 10:24
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 12:28 |
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My dear, you just presented your problem in a logical way.
Here is my advice!
My brother we guys have been the victims of every quarrel that takes place in relationships. we always end up apologising even if we are innocent. I dont know whether because we are the ones begging for the relationship to continue, or we are just not good in defending ourselves.
My dear, you have done so much already for this relationship, so now the question is, for how long will you continue to save a relationship that seems not work out. My dear, the luv myt be coming from one syd (From you alone).
If she comes back, then take her but speak out about your concerns, and if she doesnt call or sms then start preparing yourself for the single life. take note: being single is not a problem but sometimes a solution.
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smol1
Number Posts: 117
Last Post: 12.11.2008, 15:46
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 12:34 |
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Gud stuffs in here. no people, you guys dn't apologize bcos of any of those reasons. you apologize and beg simply bcos onye mwa proposer.
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Vusi
Number Posts: 36
Last Post: 07.10.2008, 13:53
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 13:34 |
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Proposing means Oku holola omadhiladhilo. That means we men present ourselves to u women to express what we feel for u. But the final decision rests with u women to either approve or disapprove our proposals. And if it turns out that my proposal is approved, it means that u also had smthing 4 me b4 i came tob u but u ought to have sm fear to approach me.
It doesn't mean that we have to suffer cos we are the ones to make the first moves.... pls...... "we also do u sm huge favours of express smthing that had been eating the inside of u for smtimes if not long".
My Braa!! If u real feel smthng 4 this girl make the first move. May be this is her way of hurting u since she didn't say how when she warned you.
Follow ur heart!!!!!!!!
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outlaw
Number Posts: 2
Last Post: 14.08.2008, 19:49
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 19:49 |
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i think thats gud V.m'boy!i think i am just fooling my self to keep on begging her.on the other
hand it might be she mean she will hurt me by dumping me,wich is a decision and i cant for
some 1 to love me!
i mean it i wont make a 1st move this tym.its enough that i have been apologising for nothing.she
can just do wat eva she wants to me and she must know that there ar many fish in the sea!
Smol1?
Does that mean if i proposed u even if u dont love me u will agree to me coz i proposed u or wat do u mean?
u just did it coz u luv me too,or u need something from me ngaashi muli.but do u mean evry tym i just have to beg u?thats childish relationship beleave me!
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Daphy
Number Posts: 48
Last Post: 12.11.2008, 10:48
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 20:38 |
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hey outlaw....i feel the way u feelin dude...bt i mean hey 1 of u guyz has just gotta do sumthn bout the whole issue.... take the initiative coz u the man..... try talkin 2hr.... just halla, ladies crave 4 antention.... gud luck
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Daphy
Number Posts: 48
Last Post: 12.11.2008, 10:48
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| Thursday, 14. August 2008 at 20:48 |
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OUTLAW>>>> if u feelin negative bout the whole thing .....................then let it go
coz tryn2 hard aint always the best......and since shes up2 hurtin you then.....hmmmm its a different story all together.........
and if you think you wudnt be able to make the 1st move then.... just leave tht at tht..... (its just my perspective anyway!)
bt all the best as you decide ........................wit wat is gud 4u
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kababy
Number Posts: 37
Last Post: 05.11.2008, 14:38
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 15:29 |
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just think about what u want! set ur priorities straight...talk to her...if she is not listening to u then obviously she has other plans
and she is not fit to be reasoned with.......take the first move it wont make u less the man u r...in fact it will give u sense of direction as far as the relationship is concerned......communication is a key that unlocks great doors......TRY IT...TAKE THE LEAD.....GUD LUCK..
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NANIC
Number Posts: 71
Last Post: 14.11.2008, 12:00
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 17:04 |
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PLS TAKE THE FIRST STEP !!!! I UNSURE U IT WILL WORK OUT COZ THATS HOW THE GAL WILL FEEL THAT U STILL NEED HER!
NANIC
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