 A man I truly loved, Finally hurted me. Why are men lyk that? |
mzecks
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| Friday, 15. August 2008 at 11:14 |
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I met some1 on the net and finally started going out. He stays in Windhoek and I studies in the north. We meet in April for the 1st time and he seemed serious. I loved this guy to pieces! I could call him on diary basis. Guess how much I spent on airtym! probably morethan hundreds.
I could beg ma parents to go for holidays to wndhk just to have his company. I loved this guy damnly, and poor me he took advantage of this.
I finally found out he doesn't love me and guess how terribly I was hurt. He stopped calling me nor smsing me even once, unless in the evening wen smses are free of charge. He could ignore ma calls and tell me he is testing if I do loves him. there was even one time wen he asked me if we should put evrythin on hold, claiming that he dont know how to treat gals and that he dont feel love wen he is with me. he wanted to have sex with me on our first date and thanks GOD, i stood by maself and said NO! I wonder how foolish i could have felt if i had gone in bed with him
I finally tell him that we must drop everything. wen i smses him, he didnt even dare to sms back and just seemed care free. It was a sad day. I'm still leaving with a loss and finding it hard to admit that he is gone for ever. sometimes i cannot even concetrate in class.
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Billy ak anonymous
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Last Post: 19.09.2008, 08:55
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| Friday, 15. August 2008 at 12:43 |
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when i started reading what u said it make me sad. i know this guy must been having sumone in whk en he dont evean cares about u. i believe that he dont feel the same luv as u feel 4 him. why he is ignoring u, if he luves u ma dear make a move stop luving him coz ur love is not worth at all.
i m a guy en i know the attitude of ma brother if he is not giving u attention he is giving it to sumone else be aware tell him to end ur relationship en see if he cares if not move on darling........
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Hate
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Last Post: 21.11.2008, 08:49
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 11:07 |
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Hmm poor u. thats why i no more put my whole heart and resources in a guy.
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eve1
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 14:40 |
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sorry to hear that gal bt thats lyf learn to be strong and indepedent person am sure he will 1 day regret doing that 2 you coz wat goes around always comes around.
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veno
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 14:55 |
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i am feeling u gal, coz i knw how it feels to luv someone who doesn't luv u back, but u knw what? even in times of sadness we must have something to be grateful to, for example u manage not to have sex with him on your first dat, thats something to be grateful for, i mean gal u are not a looser, but he is, coz he didn't get what he wanted!! if i was u i will raise my head up high and try to forget about the looser man!!
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yung bee
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 14:55 |
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HATE....then you dont know what luv is
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V.m'boy
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| Tuesday, 19. August 2008 at 15:27 |
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Hate, i kind of disagree with you. Love is just love and you have to give your whole heart. If things wont work out then atleast you know you tried.
you have to love as if you never hurt before. You have to spend resources on your lover without thinking about the break up. Just give your all in a relationship and not with doubts and extra care. if you truly love somebody, then you have to accelerate to almost 100% since it becomes your responsibility to make it work.
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shykie
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Last Post: 20.08.2008, 10:17
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| Wednesday, 20. August 2008 at 10:17 |
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i understand you gal and know how it feels dear, firstly dont let this thug ruin your studies infact he is just someone you met on net. how could he do this to you for god sake?i reckon all the guys are just pretenders and thats bullshit.
try to forget he exists and move on dont let one thug to be your obstacle otherwise everyhting you just be complicated. i know you can always start over nkelo,thats not the end of the world.
so leave your lyf gal!!!
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oubas
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| Wednesday, 20. August 2008 at 14:29 |
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I feel for you grl,and my advice to you is to move on with your life and start concentrating in class cause its obvious that guy is done with you ,all I can tell you is that he will regret it one day,cause till this day I'm regreting having left my girlfriend in the very same lame manner.
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Hate
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| Thursday, 21. August 2008 at 11:14 |
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I know but nowadays guys are not to be trusted 100% because u might be hurt, waste ur resources, ur time and ur mind. and especially in her case that she met the guy on the net even.
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Hate
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| Thursday, 21. August 2008 at 11:22 |
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Realy! ok i guez i need to be told what love is. But plz girls be careful of those who pretend to be in love while they are not. Open ur eyes dont be fooled and if u realise what he is up 2 send him 2 hell dont keep that idiot.
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energy
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| Thursday, 21. August 2008 at 14:59 |
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Hate,
i understand wat u r up2 but some timez its difficult to knw if the guy
is interesting or not.
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Doggyl
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| Thursday, 21. August 2008 at 15:41 |
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You're right Energy. Most guys/gals really pretended and seems to be trully in love while they are not. But ma question lies kutya WHY? I think, for God's sake, people must stop wasting others' time, not just to keep on hiding their true feelings and taking others for granted.
GUYS.....lets all stop it ok. Its either worth to live alone if U have no one to trully love.
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yung bee
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| Friday, 22. August 2008 at 11:20 |
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HATE...u talk as if you were seriously hurt by sumone;...were u???
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Hate
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| Friday, 22. August 2008 at 11:45 |
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Young bee yes and i am talking from what i experienced and my findings. I think u are a guy right?
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Doggyl
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| Friday, 22. August 2008 at 12:00 |
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Have you ever been hurt yung bee? Have you ever loved someone intensively? or are you dating someone you loves with you whole hurt and soul, if so, assume that person works out of your love.!!!!! I think, being not loved/ if someone u truly loves walk his/her ways, it hurts just the same as being hitted by a falling cement/concrete brick!!! its hard to mend a broken heart bro.
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Produk
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| Friday, 22. August 2008 at 13:17 |
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Guess e'ebody got to have hie'/her piece of the bone........ too bad its you this tym but hang on...
Hope you learned some lessons.... and in my opinion this guys made you learn the updowns a relationship.....
In any case take your time and let it be.... let it heal... cry loud if have to ...but do make sure that He's gone! convince your heart!
Swear to neva make the same mistake....I swear I know how you feel.... Now this tym you know wats gud and a little bit of wats bad!
Hope there wont be disapointment in the next guy!
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Sacramento
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| Saturday, 23. August 2008 at 11:50 |
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I pity what hapenned but ame ohandi mulombwele ashike kutya, oinima yo intanet ihailineekelwa, that guy is probably buzy with his next victim, the desperate once from the net. My advice is move on find some one ( preferably you know for long time, and c if love is posible) and if you are young, get some one from within your area a new relationship with some one that far might not be posible to last.
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Ozari
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| Sunday, 24. August 2008 at 19:53 |
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he is good , thats how man should be and thats part of lyf
[Post edited by: Ozari on 24/8/08 7:59 PM]
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hpy
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| Sunday, 24. August 2008 at 20:31 |
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Ozari please, you dont have a rock heart do you........
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yung bee
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| Monday, 25. August 2008 at 21:42 |
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thats right.....ima guy
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sp1
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| Thursday, 28. August 2008 at 16:15 |
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Ozari! Please!!!!!!!!! "Thats how man should be" Hell no.text
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Hate
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 11:45 |
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i can see from ur reply that u are a guy. probably those that play the game of hurting others coz u never been hurt ne?
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mshasho.com
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 16:18 |
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Tulino
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 16:55 |
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i knw wht ur feelin ryt nw gal, been ther. the best thing 4 u is to move on nomatter wht. think of wht may b ahead of u. it myt b greater. b posituve!!!!! and the best way to get over a guy is to get under one if u know what i mean!!!
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