 Best friend in-love wit me!!! |
Kiss
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| Thursday, 28. August 2008 at 16:29 |
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Sum tymz I get to wonder if True love really does exists....I met this guy long ago n we became besf friends so to say (at least thts wat i thot,u knw!!)...but I didnt knw tht he was taking every opportunity to know me wit an intension of dating 1 day.
I remember 1 day he told me:"am lyking ya so much".....I said thanx, coz i knew we were friends n nothing much!!
But wooooooo.....he started telling me how he feels n that he wanna be with me all the times n that he cant imagine lyf with out me.....blaaa,blaaaa.He is such cute n down to earth n obviously loveable. the thing is i dont feel the same 4 him cos i love ma B.F more than ever n i even told him ( this friend of mine) about ma relationship as we use to talk lyk u know....He is sweet in talking n is ever insisting we i shud date him.I tried to igore 4 quite some tyms but he seem not to giv up!
Now I dont know how to tell him so that he understands that im not the rit fish in the sea.....Infact I dont wana hurt any1, neither cheat coz I don wana leave a Lyf full regreats and guilty all the times.
Plz help....
Kiss!!!
[Post edited by: Kiss on 28/8/08 4:31 PM]
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KFC.com
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Last Post: 21.11.2008, 13:40
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| Thursday, 28. August 2008 at 17:45 |
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ah gal....... cum on jst make the rit choice, what if u do wat your heart feel lyk?
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Kiss
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 08:40 |
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Yeah but u knw its hard to trust a person this time dia n the thing is I dont wana lose our friendship after all the funny moments.....I jus want a nice way to let him understand without destroyng our friendship.
Thanx lot Chris!!!!
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0Byte
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Last Post: 16.11.2008, 17:27
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 10:04 |
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Suppose it was me...i even don't wanna fall in love with a gal who is already in a ralacnship, coz one day she may broke ours too 4 the another guy.... Does he wanna be doubting 4 the gal who got no fixed pivot? so give him such an example since he is aware about yr ralacnship. Give him advice to look 4 other gals...'n promise him that u will be always there to help him.
Yeah, love feeling are strong than jail bars!
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Produk
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 10:24 |
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What do u min u dont trust him when said he's yo friend............
See I don't know bout 'em other fella's We guys never become friends with ladies....... We only acting like friends because we want something in return...can be any benefit in this case a fling!. I min can u picture a person giving and giving and not expect anything in return? No one!
What were you doing with a guy friend anyways? I mean what do you say to yo B.F ........"Ah he just a friend.." do u think he'd buy that...... Okay enough with the blames, so heres the deal
You have made this guys come so close to you with the bonds and all that........ he developed feelings for ya..... so now its yo turn......convince him that there's nothing........Tell him what you thot and still think of him and Lets hope he'll get over it..........Ait!
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Sacramento
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Last Post: 22.11.2008, 01:59
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 10:34 |
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Produck, Obyte hit it rit on the head, what I can add is that your frindship is almost over as soon as he realised that you are seriously not in love with him, but it is for the best believe me coz if you dont tell him he will start acting weired and your boy might start to suspect somthing, than you will lose them both, take it from the master I use to be a bully in this industry, of coz I am retired now, but I know what I am talkin about girl.
And no sms, omuhole ndishi.., just face to face. good luck
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AwesomeGurl
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 10:53 |
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Hi Girl, I think you should consider that your friend...
besides, I think I'm also having similar problem, just the other way round bcos I have a frnd who is my best frnd since 2005/6. we were in same varsity (unam), we study 2geda, etc... He is an amazing guy but we were just frnds. During 2006, he asked me out like twice, each of which I turned him down!!! Later, I changed country but we still stay in touch. lately, I 've started to like him a lot, but he is no longer asking me out... but we stay in touch than ever. he still share his success, achievements and so on with me. He is a xtian, my old coursemates told me he is still the same, and he is even very focused on his studies than b4. Do u guys think he may still ask me out???
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Kiss
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 11:33 |
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Wow....All of u guys are amazing and am greatful for yor positive posts coz u have jus made a difference in how I cud handle it.Infact am thankful for that.But do u think he mean wat he told me or just som confusing lust feelings that comes and pass?. How possible that u can pretend to be a friend (for men) when u only want sumthing for such a long time? Now am getting scared cos it seems there is no such thing as boy-girl being normal friends unless one has to benefit in one way or another,rit?
By the way AwesomeGurl are u now interested in the guy or u jus wana have fun?
Kiss
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AwesomeGurl
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 11:52 |
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no Gal, i think i had a deep interest... do u think we have a chance of hooking up sometimes??
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Kiss
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 12:14 |
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mmmmh.....AwesomeGurl,I really dont know cos 1st of all he mit be involved with sum1 else and if he accept u unless he jus want hook-ups otherwise..but not taking it seriously..u know men cant refuse offers so the chances are that he mit even go beyong the hoocking-ups.
Lemme ask: Do u kinda lyk it to be the same friendship or another level of serious businez?
As for me am really scared of being dissed so jus think about it....I personally dont take risk-attached chances!!!!!
Kiss.
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Kiss
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 15:34 |
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My dia Produk....I know it is better said than done.I hav bn trying n al sim to enter 1 ear n livs thru the other.
Mayb thez a way to go thru it but Iam getng tired of it man...I really am....or myab how I say it to him matters lot neh?......OMG, I don wana mess with him...Imagine, he even called me during lunch tym, jus to ask if he can take me for dinner.U can guez tha excuz i gavn probably tha disaptntmnts he felt...lyf can b funny sumtymz n I wish he cud c inside ma heart so that he stops acting that way 4 real.........It's a pity if it happens to ya friend really!!!
KIss
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Produk
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| Monday, 01. September 2008 at 14:09 |
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Damn I see u in a difficult situation.......... I min its clear that this guys loves u but the thing u cant luv him back even if you had to ryt? Now thats a challenge..... but I dont get us guys sometyms......see if you fall on into the "friend category" to a girl... u get stuck in there for life and its impossible to be her man..... but the real problem comes when the guys is being unfriendly to you, buy not understanding yo No!.....So for that take it as a revenge to him for not understanding yo feelings.... this basically mean that for every move he makes onto you...move further from him like emotionally now.... I know you will and already hurt her enough but THIS is what he gets for being unfriendly..... I know I know that would probably go extremes in doing what he does...with the offers and all but....One needs to be humane and understand that U can't force sumbody to luv U...juz move further and lets hope this doesn't lead in another drastic event.... Coz I can see U got a heart, to point that you'd prefer to die in saving a heart... but tyms like this calls for such measures!
Beta jet discuss the situation with your man... see if he can convince him that he's stepping his friendly boundaries!
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Dai
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| Monday, 01. September 2008 at 14:19 |
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You said he is your best friend, meaning you know him better than anyone else! I dont think you need to go several ways just to tell him you aint in love with him! You sit with him and you tell him that your friendship with him is the most precious thing that you guys ever had and you want to keep it that way! If he started to hate you, then he wasnt the best friend! Best friends understand each other well and i hope this will do the same! Good luck, tell him the truth, unless you also feels for him!
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Kiss
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 14:55 |
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Produk...I think u ryt but can that min at any tym u fil lyk u r lyking tha person then u hav to fall inlove or wat?.U know wat..I know men lyk friends wih benefits thus sumtyms they treat u as if they really mean thier feelings....How wil I knw that he is serious n that he wont cause damage if am to date him?.....Y would any man fall inlove and even build such strong feeling with a gal who is dating sum1 else? Love is nt about taking opportunities or sumthng of that nature........I wish I cud help him to get over it but now it seems everytym he gets closer to me,the more his so-called deepens......damn,I think tha devil is using him somhow......mmmmh may be there is no such a thing as ordinal friends these days coz I jus cant bliv its hapning 2 me.
Anyway THANX alot n ya.....Am trying ma best.....I hate hurting others n am afraid that wat goes around mit come around sum days later in lyf......
cool.
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Kiss
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 15:07 |
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Ok Dai......yes I know him and to tel ya tha truth neh....he has bn good all along our friendship but now he is offside, u know.I care about him n thats y I don wana b harsh on him.....I wish I cud change his feelings but its his choice.Mayb its ma fault or mayb Iam jus too soft that he tend to think am jus pretending.Its worrying me though.wil it b beter if i kip a distanc or wat do u think?????
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Dai
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 15:36 |
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A distance wont do a thing dear, talk to the person, make him understand! I know it will disappoint him but sooner or later he will find a place in his heart to forgive you or to understand what you have been telling him. I was once in the same situation but telling him the truth about my feelings for him was the only option i was left with. If you dont have any feelings for him,,,,,,,make it clear to him.
All the best of luck!
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