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 What does this implies? |
teamtalk
Number Posts: 47
Last Post: 21.11.2008, 17:25
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| Friday, 29. August 2008 at 17:57 |
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I m dating a gal for more than a year now, i think she loves but not 100% sure, The problem is that; we alwys have disagreements and disputes, small issues become big issues. another thing is this lady likes crying too much even if she is the 1 who did a mistake, but crying for nothing to me is a taboo. We came at a point where i told her that i needed a break 4 six months but she forced me not to do it and I agreed just because I m soft hearted. Again after a simple disputes, she said she heard that I want to go back to my x, which i did not do in fact. It was at 01h00 mindnight that time and she footed from Khomasdal to Katutura heading to my place. JUST IMAGIN WHAT IF SOMETHING COULD HAPPEN TO HER WHILE COMMING TO MY PLACE IN THE MID-NIGHT ALONE A GIRL EVEN, we slept and in the morning she took out everything belongs to her in my rooms and told me not to call her any more. I stoped calling her until again she started calling me but she told me that is just for friendship sake.
One day we meet at my place and started crying that she loves me too much and cannot accept that our affair is over, and even said she can find a darling man like me. I help her with assignments and other things. I dont knw whether she loves me real or just because I help her.
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LiOnEsS
Number Posts: 30
Last Post: 14.11.2008, 14:32
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| Monday, 01. September 2008 at 19:28 |
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LiOnEsS here. well teamtalk, from a girls perspective and honest opinion i will spell it out.......
SHE LOVES YOU FOR GOODNESS SAKE! but the tragedy is YOU obviously dont C it!
Have you not been exposed to people who have actually done stupid things for the sake of love?
you do not need to concern yourself with whether she truly loves you or not coz
truth is brother.. humans dont read hearts but through life we believe by faith and courage.
having said that, You need to ask yourself wether you truly love her or not and act accordingly.
Hope you sort things out with your boo..
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| Re: What does this implies? |
PrettyBoy
Number Posts: 226
Last Post: 18.11.2008, 16:31
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| Monday, 01. September 2008 at 19:47 |
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Ok brother i will not give you direct advice but i will rather look at this from two points.
She love you very much,the fact that she walked all the way from khomasdal to katutura(i tell you most gals will want to catch a taxi,with you paying the fare) and she did this alone in the middle of the night!! oh how lucky can you get man? but she is a little bit immature i think,why would she come to you in the middle of the night sleep with you then in the morning demands all her belongings? i know she heared about you wanting to go back to your Ex but thats a bit weired spenting the night with you, don't you think?(but this is another indicator of her love for you,maybe she wanted to spent a last night with you),onether thing is that you did not mention wether you have feelings for her and how strong are they? So i suggest you guys sit down and iron a few things out,tell her as how much as you want to be with her,she need to respect and cherish you as a human-being,she need to stop acting childish and grow up a bit.Do this nicely tell her first how much you love her then git to the point.But the truth is that she love you very much!! All the best bra!
[Post edited by: NiggaRicca on 01/9/08 7:53 PM]
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Babe/Cute!
Number Posts: 34
Last Post: 14.11.2008, 16:59
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| Thursday, 04. September 2008 at 12:56 |
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Believe me love myks us tyk risks en do stupid things.Luk ur gal tyks th risk 2 cum 2 ur place in da middle of da nyt,anything could hve hapened 2 her,bt this does not convince me dat she loves u or jst wnt 2 kip u in order 2 help her wit her academics en disappear afta all. Y dd she demanded her things afta all.
I think ther r lots of things dat u guys nid 2 sort out,at least hve a seat en talk 2 her. Wat i dont understand again is y she lyks 2 cry,bt my advice 2 u ask her y sh lyks 2 cry en jst b brave enough en tell her dat u dont lyk it.if ur not going 2 tel her sh wil kip on doing it en jst think dat u enjoys it 2o.cuming 2 da story of going bck 2 ur ex, it myt b jst a story she created jst 2 c how u r giong 2 react.
U ddnt state if u really luv the gal or not,if so talk 2 her en tell her hw much u nid her i ur lyf. Knw en hve a clear understanding of wat both of u wnt out ur relationship.About small issues turning into big issues,my advice dnt wait 4 thing 2 accumulate,i mean if a dispute rise talk about it while its still fresh en reach an agreement.As long as u do it politely,try it works!
Good luck brother,wamie
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Shindenge
Number Posts: 59
Last Post: 20.11.2008, 09:34
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| Thursday, 04. September 2008 at 13:27 |
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My brother Teamtalk from the look of things, this woman loves you guenienely. She only lacks on thing: TRUST. She does not trust you at all. If you really love her, display this love to her, and assure her that you are serious with her. The arguments sometimes are sparked by jealousy and mistrust. I suggest you sit down with her and question her inconsistency with you.It is better you convince her that you love her with your whole heart and you do not have any intention to go back to your ex.
It will be also good if you can tell her to stop that attitudes because they would alienate you from her.
Good luck my brother. I can see my colleagues have given you good ideas. So, combine them and come up with the effective one to solve your problem.
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Dai
Number Posts: 559
Last Post: 13.11.2008, 09:56
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| Friday, 05. September 2008 at 09:50 |
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All i can say is, there are many interpretations that one can draw from from your forum! To me, the gals still loves you but she was feeling insecure due to the fact that she heard you and your ex planning to get back together! The question is, do you still love your ex? Re you planning to get back together with her one day? The other thing is, the reason why she walked to your place in the middle of the night is unquestionable! I dont think it was her intentions to come all the way just to pick her staffs up, "i think she was hoping to catch you in bed with someone else" and it just embrassed her and decided to act foolishness. You are luck that she didnt catch you with someone.
To my point of view as a woman, why did she has to take her staffs from your place, if she still love you? Why does she has to come crying back at you, if she was gone and why is she regretting it now? What is that you have done wrong to her that you will not do again, even if she comes back? She went because she was afraid of you getting back together with an ex, does she has a quarantee now that you are no longer aint gonna go back to your ex?
Man, you need to be careful and not just to be blinded by her love for you! Analyze everything before you accept her back as your woman! She might end up hurting you more or perhaps she is going to take advantages of you!
being insecure is not good in a relationship and can make someone imagine things unneccessarily.
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