 What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 19:32 |
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help me guys
I have this girl who we are kinda dating but the thing is she is refusing to have sex with me!!
We do everything and i mean everything,kissing,touching and all those stuff but when it comes to sex she refuses,i have tried on so many occasions up to 6 or so time but it is always the same story,we kiss, touch i gt horny she get horny but she will refuse sex.I am on the verge of giving up but the thing is iam so in love with this girl..anybody tell me why would a girl refuse sex?is it b'cose it may hurt her or what?
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rambo
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 19:53 |
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ur gal knws wat she wants in life, she knows her principles and she wanna stick to them, so dnt force her to go against her own principles. it is much more better for her to refuse than to accept wen she know its not good for her. so dnt think that mayb she dnt like u
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 19:58 |
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I know she love me!!!!!but i want us to have sex or atleast she should have told me that she is against having sex she havent told me that!!!!!!its like she want and dont want at the same time!so i wanna know what might be the possible cause of this promblem?anyway thanks boss!!!!
[Post edited by: NiggaRicca on 02/9/08 8:00 PM]
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
Daphy
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 20:32 |
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maybe she still wanna keep things on the low, she doesn't wanna rush....
(she wants to take things one step at a time) ;she wanna get 2know U 1st!
or she feels she ain't ready or probably not matured yet.
or she feels it ain't right,or it could be a matter of preversing herself,
or she would rather want nothing to do with getting physically or intimately involved; so
try talking to her and really find out what's behind all that................
all the best............
its just my perspective....:-)
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Tuesday, 02. September 2008 at 20:44 |
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ok! thank u
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Babe/Cute!
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 10:03 |
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NiggaRicca my 1st question did u asked ur gal y she refuses 2 have sex wit u,only if u ask her u wil knw wat myks the clock nt 2 tick( pls talk about it, u knw communication is th best tool 4 any relationship). As a woman I wil say da reason she refuses is dat,she might be physically ready bt nt emotionaly,thus y sumtym sh seems 2 b ready en on the other hand she is nt. Th other possible reason is dat sh is afraid 2 fall pregnant(condoms mos bursts) en sh is nt so sure if u wil stand in 4 ur baby. The other reason myt b beliefs,Lets say sex afta marriage. U talk of AIDS,STDS,u knw sex brings lots of things,en she might b scared for all this.Its also believed dat if a gal is a virgin,en its her 1st tym 2 hve sex a certain thing inside them which contains blood breaks,but this myt not hapen as it sumtyms wear out if she rides bicycles or if sh is an athlete,en so on en if she is a virgin sh myt b scared dat sh wont prove it 2 u.The other thing is dat if u hve sex 4 da 1st tym is dat u myt get thin or 2o fat as result of change in hormones en sumtyms u feel sleepy en sh might b scared for all this......the list goes on en on.
As I said early th best thing is 2 talk abt it wit ur gal en hear out her sde,jst ask her politely 4 sure she wil tell u everythin! BUT dont force her if sh doesnt wnt,believe me its hard 2 giv in if u r virgin! sex is not a guarantee 4 ur love,so jst wait 4 da right tym en enjoys it 2getha!
All th best in ur relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 19:13 |
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now thats the advice i was looking for!!i will try talking to her bt it will not be easy as i am a shy kind of guy,but as it might be the only option i will do it,thanx Wamie u are a pal!!
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loverzinho...
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| Wednesday, 03. September 2008 at 21:57 |
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Sex is not Love nigga.........What you have to do is make love you, you may think that she loves you but it might not be the case braaaaaa. Gals are lyk snakes under the grasses!!!!!!
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
Dai
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| Friday, 05. September 2008 at 09:57 |
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In short.......They refuse when the time is not right for them, when they feel that they are not ready or may be cant trust the person but in your case, she loves you!
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Tiara
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| Sunday, 07. September 2008 at 04:03 |
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NiggaRicca, you wrote: " I have this girl who we are kinda dating but the thing is she is refusing to have sex with me!!"
The word "KINDA" shows already that you don't really know each other well yet. No wonder she is refusing!!!!!!
you again wrote: " I have tried on so many occasions up to 6 or so time but still it is always the same story" to be honest with you, Ricca, I think you frightened the shit out of her! because you made her believe that the ONLY most important thing you want to do is to get between her legs!!!!
My advise to you is, give her enough time to get to know you better, to trust and love you and see what she will say about your request!!!
Just because she refused to have sex with you, I hope you won't go and hump anything with a heartbeat:-) just be patient......and if she ever gives in,please use protection!
Take care!
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KFC.com
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| Tuesday, 09. September 2008 at 13:27 |
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Iyaaaaa..............
Hano ove owii pumbwa ne unene?
osho eike ngaho...
mayb u dnt no steps to b followed to brind about sex. or do u?
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Tuesday, 16. September 2008 at 18:58 |
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Thanks Tiara for your advice i thought for a moment are my MOM! K.F.C.COM BRA IF U ARE A PLAYER I AINT A PLAYA SO GIT THE **** OUTTA HERE BIATCH!!!
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Tiara
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| Tuesday, 16. September 2008 at 19:19 |
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You are welcome and I am glad to hear that I sounded like your MOM with my advice:-)
[Post edited by: Tiara on 16/9/08 7:52 PM]
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I'm minding me
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| Tuesday, 16. September 2008 at 19:23 |
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If yo gal refuses sex then it means she don't really consider u Mr-Right, in ma case a gal her self will bring up sex stuffs
just the first week in relationship, coz i go for ma level, if u ever aim high, u'll always have to beg for it
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d.fingaz
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| Tuesday, 16. September 2008 at 21:30 |
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Bra, i am a guy just like you and i wouldn't say i know it all when it comes to ladies. i have been in a similar situation and i thought at one point that maybe she is just playing games with me / maybe she doesn't love me.
but it wasn't so at all, infact she loves more than i thought she did. the thing with her was that she was scared that things might change once we had sex. woman need to know for certain that you not just in it for sex. i think what you need to do is just be there for her, love her with or without sex. i promise you that one day when she feels secure enough she will be the one trying to convience you.hope i was of any help. good luck!
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| Re: What makes girls refuse sex? |
PrettyBoy
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| Wednesday, 17. September 2008 at 10:53 |
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You were KFC.com Fingaz?
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c-fire
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| Monday, 29. September 2008 at 15:24 |
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Im sorry 4 that my friend, maybe when you do everything, she has noticed that you do everything in a rough way, so try doing it in a better way, you will see her demanding for sex
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super-senior
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| Monday, 06. October 2008 at 13:43 |
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u really need it neh..................??????????
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mshasho.com
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| Monday, 06. October 2008 at 13:52 |
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DID U CHECK WELL..?MAYBE THERE IS NOTHING TO GIVE U..!lOL
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mshasho.com
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| Monday, 06. October 2008 at 14:00 |
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Maybe she saw your "weapon" and she can't risk giving her flower to be destryed by the blessed-merciless herero niga like u!ha ha ha!she just feel pity for herslf,just andastant tht bra..!nex time u wana hammer don't dare let her see that stick,she may just run away literary...!FOR FUN ONLY GUY..z,NOY SERIAS!
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Peke
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| Monday, 20. October 2008 at 13:26 |
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u are right fingaz, its very rare to find a guy who talks like that, wish i can also discipline some dude just to have similar thoughts like your, so proud of you, just hang in there, and thanks giving on behalf of the fellow lady (your gf) for being so understanding. i am also an open person but its a pity that all the guys that i have fallen for were just messed up and they all wanted between the legs, But oh i refused but tried to make them understand first but aaaye no one cud.
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indix
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| Monday, 20. October 2008 at 15:58 |
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girls dnt like to b shown dat de guy is desperate for sex.. so if u push her she wil get some ideas dat u mayt only b interetd in sleeping with her.. so if u want to get down to business wit her b PATIENT
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