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PrincessDally
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Last Post: 20.11.2008, 10:52
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| Friday, 10. October 2008 at 10:56 |
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I am very much outraged by what "some of Namibian men are doing now....
It was not a month ago when a musician killed her ex and turned the bistol on himself ,and what I am reading in todays the namibian are two articles of the same nature. apparently a certain Hoon from Swakop shot his wife and himself on Wednseday but fortunate the wife sustained though in stable condition. In that very same day, in Windhoek a man allegedly shot her galfriend before turning the weapon on himself. The victim is being treated while the murderer and suicider could be in hell by now...
Our lives are very precious and need no one to rob them from us expect God.......
Stop imitating!!!!!!
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Pirie
Number Posts: 3
Last Post: 11.11.2008, 16:03
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| Friday, 10. October 2008 at 12:03 |
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So Namibian Men you need to change your attitude. If the girl or women does not want you that not mean its the end of the world but try to find someone else that person might be better than the first one insteaxd of just rus hing to the conclunsion to shot youself and your girlfriend.We women we are tiredc ofNamibian men unless you change your behaviours
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0Byte
Number Posts: 264
Last Post: 16.11.2008, 17:27
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| Friday, 10. October 2008 at 13:33 |
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Royal Gal, ...Pirie
Yeah is very disgusting what is happening in Namibia against women. But sometimes some aspects needed to be extracted first. Since...i have been noticing violation and brutal killing against women from their partners, couples.... And here is the point I guess;
To me Namibian law is not on balanced momentum when acting between genders. I mean, a men is unlikely to be favored by law against the women. No matter what, the sharp axe almost to fall on him....and the law is not such keen to go too much further with the matter between him and her. As a result, men develop that bad mentality that whatever happen between you and women; forget the law to protect you never even try to sort things out.
Again it is that natural to make argument regardless the person is your lover, couples and so on. And it might be in the course of their arguments or of that quarrel..situation he may realize that he went too far either threatening to kill her, touched some weapons and so on (though maybe he didn't mean it), then by all these acts,....he may aware that all what he shouted to her, acted is enough to be prosecuted.....and this is where he became fearfully to face charges against a female. Remember he already aware that "she" is a winner. Then might be these thoughts came in; "help what? my life already spoiled." Instead, more anger just mounting up coz of loss of hope for his future life. Sure men aware that there are lot of women they can go for second chance....but how will it be possible 2 go 4 second chance with those charges on him? And who will that second women will date a men in court against threatening charges of killing a women and so on?...as an example.
Then this guys after thinking such in short times of anger....(and note anger is not wise) then they may think to commit suicide is an option. And here is an interesting question: Why he may not only commit suicide to himself and leave the women alone? Remember, as i said above, it might he just realize that his action went too far...and didn't mean it, and he may still in-love with his partner and jealous here come in to conquer him,...."Am killing myself and other men continue with her?.....and this was a profit of me and her...." Here u may notice that anger and jealous are contributing to worse point. So me in the first place am blaming the law between gender....coz most men have no hope on it.
Sorry am not saying what i said is a fact but only my guess. Sure am really against women violation.
Zero-Byte
From the palace
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PrincessDally
Number Posts: 206
Last Post: 20.11.2008, 10:52
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| Friday, 10. October 2008 at 14:29 |
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That might be the case now? Oshili soon I will import.....that would be the best decision I hope.
The prince what are your measurements then? Best possible ways to put an end to this?
Thanks loads for your contribution.
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LiOnEsS
Number Posts: 30
Last Post: 14.11.2008, 14:32
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| Tuesday, 14. October 2008 at 09:23 |
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yep, the violence against us women is scary. but inevitable, but i must say that the blame is on both parties to a certain degree. Women too, need to stop giving violent men 2nd chances in relationships. Just coz he apologises with tears dont mean nothing baby. To all my ladies out there in this mother land- stand up for yourselfs and then and only then will we truly Progressively, slowly but SURELY overcome this violence threatening our lives. peace.
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Peke
Number Posts: 58
Last Post: 10.11.2008, 13:13
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| Monday, 20. October 2008 at 13:58 |
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LiO----- You are right we know abusive and violent men are there but we can be blamed (ladies) too. Because we can not express ourselves and still believe that ma man should be treated as a bread winer and one should not even question whenever he says something hapi or not. Ma advices to fellow ladies are as follows:
1. Express your feelings politely
2. Never accept a suggestion/ commend that u are not hapi with but just for the sake of showing respect or what so ever.
3. Never move in with him before marriage (that is if you are planning to)
4. Do not accept expensive things that u can not repay back in times of worried/ when things do not work
5. Stick to your words if u say NEVER than let it be a never
6. Don't think that u can change him after your marriage or after your first child...... the right time to train him is now and as times goes he will know how to treat you and all that
7. Never accept what ever you hear from the third parties without analysing it first is will ruin everything
I think it will seriously help its not a joke try some of them
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